THE REAL WAY TO GET YOUR EX BACK

Understand why the two of you broke up in the first place
To be able to get your ex back, look at the reasons behind your break up. Was your ex abusive or was it you that had the problem. look critically at the reasons behind your break up

Give your ex some time after the break up to cool things off
Before calling your ex to talk things over, wait for some time to let things cool off. You will have a higher chance of getting your ex back if you give them time to themselves. In addition, you need to make sure that you don't wait too long before contacting them as they might assume that you are no longer interested and might decide to move on.

Be the person they fell in love with
Your ex fell in love with you for a reason. Correct bad mistakes and habits and let them know how much you enjoy their company.

Take it slow
Relationships are built on trust. After a break take things slow and first concentrate on having fun with you ex. Enjoy each other's company and see whether there are any feelings left. Avoid talking about feelings immediately after the break up instead focus on having fun and if your ex still loves you, they will see what they are missing and will want to get back with you

Take care of yourself
Relationships break up is often a hard time, but this is not the time to neglect yourself. Make sure you look good and presentable to increase your chances of getting your ex back. Let your ex know that you aren't mopping around for them to prevent them from playing mind games with you

Shift your focus
Take your focus off your ex and do other things. Hang out with friends and focus on other things. This will help you take your mind off your ex and give them time to think. Giving your ex too much attention may not always work to your advantage and you might appear as desperate.

Avoid playing mind games
After a break up many people will do anything to try to get their ex jealous. While this works in some cases, it might push your ex far away from you. Concentrate on making your life better instead of looking for ways to make your ex jealous

Let them know how you feel
After giving your ex a break, call them and ask to meet up. Tell them how you feel about them without giving them too much pressure to respond the same. If they still care, talk things out and aim to make your relationship better.
Sent from my BlackBerry wireless device from MTN